I talk about this concept when working with couples, however, it applies to every single person. AND… all of it begins with YOU! When seeking to be understood, you are looking for synergy, sameness, oneness, compliance, alignment, and agreement. You believe that people who understand you are more like you, and therefore more worthy of your time, love, care, and attention. This is a common aspect of the human condition, or being a human. When you are in this space, you tend to